problems married couples usually Have
1. Money fights: Just as the title implies, money has lead couples to mistrust each other and eventually split. When one partner finds out that they were cheated financially by their spouse, there’s an immediate feeling of betrayal and anger which may cause a big first when confrontation ensues. Couples in this type of situation can resolve their issues by talking about it. Fight if you know it would bring better understanding in the end but there’s nothing as solid as honesty.
2. Calling each other names: This is not just immature, it is degrading for any couple who have tried it. This type of fight is seldom forgotten due to nasty words used by spouses and toally violates what marriage stands for. Couples should learn to apologise immediately when faced with this kind of situation.
3. Fighting over sex: Like number two, this fight is a no-brainer. If there’s an issue in your sex life, addressing the issue with compassion would solve your problems faster than screaming at each other.
4. Partner’s family fight: Issues like this are bound to come up in marriages. COnstant arguments about your spouse’s family could build up resentment and you both come from different backgrounds. The best thing in such scenario is to wash your hands off their matter and only input when you are told to do so.
5. Fights over house chores: This kind of fight could be very frustrating especially when one spouse is trying to wield control over the other. FInding a common ground could work for both couples and the inner control freak doesn’t have to rear it’s ugly head every time.
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